New Year's Resolutions for People Caring for Loved Ones with Dementia

As we enter a new year, many of us create resolutions to improve our health, finances, or relationships. However, if you're caring for a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer's disease, your resolutions may look different—and arguably more important—than the typical gym membership or diet plan.

Caregiving for someone with cognitive decline is one of life's most challenging journeys. This year, consider making new year's resolutions that not only benefit your loved one but also protect their future and preserve your own well-being.

Prioritize Legal and Financial Planning

If you haven't already, make 2025 the year you get your loved one's legal affairs in order. Dementia progresses unpredictably, and there's a limited window during which your loved one can legally make important decisions. Essential documents include durable powers of attorney, healthcare directives, living wills, and updated estate plans.

Don't wait until a crisis forces your hand. Proactive planning ensures your loved one's wishes are honored and prevents potential family conflicts down the road. Consider consulting with an elder law attorney who specializes in dementia care planning to explore options like Medicaid planning, asset protection, and guardianship alternatives.

Create a Sustainable Care Plan

Many caregivers burn out by trying to do everything themselves. This year, resolve to build a realistic, sustainable care plan that includes respite care, adult day programs, or in-home assistance. Research local resources and support services available in your community. Remember: taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's essential. You cannot pour from an empty cup, and your loved one needs you to remain healthy and present for the long term.

Document Important Information

Start a comprehensive care notebook that includes your loved one's medical history, medications, insurance information, doctor contacts, and daily routines. Document their life story, favorite memories, and personal preferences while they can still share them. This information becomes invaluable as the disease progresses, especially if multiple family members share caregiving duties or professional care becomes necessary.

Develop a Support Network

Isolation is one of the most significant challenges caregivers face. Resolve to connect with others who understand your journey. Join a local or online support group for Alzheimer's caregivers where you can share experiences, learn coping strategies, and find emotional support. Organizations like the Alzheimer's Association offer free resources, education programs, and 24/7 helplines that can provide guidance during difficult moments.

Review Long-Term Care Options

Even if your loved one is currently living at home, educate yourself about future care options. Research memory care facilities, understand the costs involved, and explore how to finance long-term care. Many families wait until an emergency to investigate these options, leaving them overwhelmed and making rushed decisions. Understanding what's available—and how to pay for it—allows you to make informed choices when the time comes.

Protect Your Own Future

While focusing on your loved one's care, don't neglect your own planning. Witnessing dementia firsthand often motivates caregivers to ensure their own affairs are in order. Update your estate plan, consider long-term care insurance, and have conversations with your own family about your wishes.

Take the First Step Today

The journey of caring for someone with dementia or Alzheimer's requires more than love and dedication—it requires proper planning and legal protection. Many families struggle unnecessarily because they waited too long to seek professional guidance.

At Kimbrough Law, we understand the unique challenges families face when dealing with dementia and Alzheimer's disease. We specialize in elder law and can help you navigate complex legal matters, protect your loved one's assets, and plan for their future care needs.

Don't let another year pass without proper planning. Schedule a consultation with Kimbrough Law and make this the year you gain peace of mind knowing that your loved one's future is secure. Call 706.850.6910 to book your consultation.