Planning for the End of Life: A Review of Books and Tools That Make Death Less Daunting

Preparing for the end of life is something most of us avoid until it’s too late, but having the right resources can turn an overwhelming task into an empowering one. Whether you want to organize important documents, start conversations with loved ones, or ensure your wishes are honored, there are practical books and products designed to guide you. Here’s an objective review of some of the best tools available today.

📘 “Get It Together” by Melanie Cullen

Considered the gold standard of end-of-life planning workbooks, Get It Together walks you through creating a comprehensive binder of critical information. Covering everything from bank accounts and insurance policies to pet care and online passwords, it provides worksheets and checklists that help you gather, record, and store your most important details. Users appreciate its thoroughness, though some note it can feel overwhelming — especially if you’re starting from scratch. Still, it’s hard to beat its depth, and it’s ideal for anyone who wants to leave an organized roadmap behind.

🎲 “Nothing Left Unsaid” Card Game

Facing end-of-life conversations can be emotionally charged. Nothing Left Unsaid is a conversation card game designed to break the ice and encourage honest dialogue about death, legacy, regrets, forgiveness, and what matters most. With thoughtful, open-ended questions like “What do you want people to remember about you?” or “Is there something you’d like to apologize for?” it’s well suited for family gatherings, hospice work, or personal reflection. Players find it invaluable for strengthening relationships, though it’s not for everyone — some families may find the prompts too intense if emotions are already raw.

📓 “I’m Dead. Now What?”

This workbook’s cheeky title belies its practical, easy-to-follow approach. I’m Dead. Now What? is a guided planner that prompts you to record important contacts, final wishes, account details, and more. Its straightforward format and humor make it approachable even for those squeamish about end-of-life planning. It’s especially good for those who want a lighter tone while still addressing serious topics.

📑 “End of Life Planner”

Simple, straightforward, and affordable, an End of Life Planner (various versions are available online) is a fill-in-the-blank book where you can list important documents, healthcare wishes, funeral preferences, and passwords. Unlike more comprehensive guides, it doesn’t overwhelm but also doesn’t offer much explanation or advice. It’s a good option for those who want a no-frills solution.

📔 “Sorry, It’s Your Problem Now”

This planner uses humor to soften a heavy topic, with prompts to gather financial information, contact lists, funeral arrangements, and even pet care plans. The witty tone appeals to those who want to lighten the mood while tackling important details. Reviewers praise its ability to make an uncomfortable task more approachable, but note that it doesn’t go as in-depth as Get It Together.

📖 Honorable Mention: “Before I Go” by Jane Duncan Rogers

Though not as well-known, Before I Go combines memoir with workbook, offering both personal stories and step-by-step checklists for organizing legal, financial, and personal matters. It’s recommended for readers looking for inspiration as well as guidance.

Choosing the Right Tool

Which tool is best for you? The answers depends on what you want to accomplish.

• If you enjoy the planning process, Get It Together provides the most detailed checklists and forms.

• If humor is your thing, I’m Dead. Now What? and Sorry, It’s Your Problem Now balance practicality with levity.

• If you want to get people talking, Nothing Left Unsaid is perfect.

• If getting organized is your sole priority, the End of Life Planner may be all you need.

• If you prefer a blend of advice and storytelling, Before I Go offers personal insights alongside actionable steps.

Preparing for the end of life is one of the most loving acts you can do for yourself and your family. These books and tools make an uncomfortable topic easier to approach, helping you leave clear instructions, avoid unnecessary burdens on loved ones, and ensure your legacy reflects your wishes. Whether you prefer comprehensive guides, humorous workbooks, or conversation starters, there’s a resource out there that fits your style — so don’t put it off. Start planning today, and give yourself and those you care about the peace of mind they deserve.

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